im a lesbian so please respect that. im happy to chat with anyone but im not interested in what a man wants to do to me.<br/><br/>One point of contention are lesbians who have had sex with men, while lesbians who have never had sex with men may be referred to as "gold star lesbians". Those who have had sex with men may face ridicule from other lesbians or identity challenges with regard to defining what it means to be a lesbian and are identified as bisexual and not truly a lesbian.<br/><br/>im a gold star lesbian.